Holiday Hormones: How to Keep Your Mood, Energy & Cravings in Balance

There’s a reason the holiday season can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—joy mixed with overwhelm, excitement mixed with exhaustion, celebration mixed with cravings and mood swings. The holidays place unique pressure on your hormones, often in ways you don’t see until symptoms flare.
For women in midlife, this disruption is felt even more intensely. With perimenopause or menopause already shifting estrogen and progesterone, even small changes in sleep, stress, alcohol, or sugar can amplify symptoms like irritability, cravings, bloating, and fatigue.
Your hormones are exquisitely sensitive—and the holidays tug on them from every direction.
Your body is not misbehaving. It is responding—perfectly logically—to the stressors of the season.
Compassion is powerful here: you don’t need more willpower; you need support for your biology.
Functional medicine helps identify the root causes behind holiday hormone swings, while a faith-informed perspective reminds us that our bodies are gifts—worthy of care, patience, and grace.
Understanding the Holiday Hormone Trifecta
Cortisol — The Stress Hormone
Holiday stress is real—physiologically and emotionally.
- The busyness of events and preparations
- The emotional complexity of family gatherings
- Travel demands and disrupted routines
All of this challenges cortisol, which thrives on predictability. Late nights elevate cortisol at the wrong time of day, leading to “wired-tired” exhaustion.
Signs your cortisol is stressed include:
- irritability
- anxiety
- difficulty settling down
- belly fat storage
- middle-of-the-night waking
- afternoon crashes
Insulin — The Sugar-Response Hormone
Desserts, snacks, grazing, and special meals create frequent blood sugar spikes, which in turn:
- increase cravings
- cause energy crashes
- worsen mood swings
- trigger brain fog
Insulin resistance often intensifies during midlife as estrogen fluctuates, making women 40–65 especially sensitive to sugar-heavy seasons.
What feels like “holiday lack of control” is often simply unstable insulin.
Sex Hormones — Estrogen, Progesterone, Testosterone
When stress and sugar rise, sex hormones become imbalanced—especially for midlife women.
- Cortisol steals from progesterone → worsening PMS or perimenopause
- Estrogen metabolism slows → bloating, moodiness, breast tenderness
- Low testosterone → fatigue, low motivation
Women in perimenopause or menopause often feel like the holidays “take them out” hormonally. The body becomes more reactive to sleep loss, alcohol, sugar, and stress—which all converge during December.
Sugar & Insulin Balance — “Stable Blood Sugar, Smoother Holidays”
Blood sugar stability is one of the most effective ways to calm cravings, boost energy, and steady your mood. When insulin is stable, hormones operate more smoothly—especially for women navigating perimenopause or menopause.
Practical Strategies
PFF meals (Protein–Fat–Fiber)
This formula slows digestion, prevents glucose spikes, and keeps you satisfied longer.
Examples: salmon + avocado + greens, turkey sausage + sautéed veggies, hummus + veggies + olives.
Savory breakfasts
Starting the day with protein (rather than pastries or fruit alone) sets the tone for balanced hormones.
Savory breakfasts stabilize insulin and prevent mid-morning crashes.
10-minute post-meal walks
One of the simplest hormone-balancing tools. Even a slow walk lowers post-meal glucose and reduces cravings.
Hydration + electrolytes
Holiday travel, sugar, and stress dehydrate the body—leading to fatigue mistaken for hunger.
A mineral-rich electrolyte drink in the morning helps regulate energy and blood sugar throughout the day.
Tools for Midlife Women
Midlife brings increased insulin sensitivity due to fluctuating estrogen levels. These extra tools can help:
Cinnamon, chromium, or berberine
These supplements may support healthy blood sugar regulation (when appropriate).
Eat sweets after meals, not alone
Having dessert with protein and fiber helps reduce glucose spikes, preventing the “crash and crave” cycle.
Stable insulin → calmer mood, better sleep, fewer cravings.
Cortisol & Stress Support — “Peace for Your Nervous System”
Cortisol is the hormone most sensitive to holiday overload. Supporting the nervous system helps bring cortisol back to baseline so mood, sleep, and cravings naturally stabilize.
Nervous System-Calming Practices
Box breathing
Inhale 4 seconds → hold 4 → exhale 4 → hold 4.
Repeating this for 1–2 minutes shifts the body into parasympathetic calm.
Physiological sighs
Two inhales through the nose, slow exhale through the mouth.
This is one of the fastest ways to reduce stress physiology.
Vagal toning
Gentle practices that activate the vagus nerve and calm cortisol:
- humming or singing
- splashing cold water on the face
- prayerful breathwork
- slow, extended exhales
These practices remind the body that it is safe to relax.
Lifestyle Adjustments
Create “white space” on the holiday calendar
Margin is medicine. A single unscheduled afternoon can reset your nervous system.
Let go of perfection
Your worth is not measured by the quality of your holiday performance.
Hormones thrive in an atmosphere of grace—not pressure.
Delegate tasks
Shared responsibilities lighten cognitive load and reduce cortisol.
You don’t have to do everything alone.
Supportive Nutrients
Magnesium glycinate
Helps calm the nervous system, reduce muscle tension, and support sleep.
L-theanine
Promotes a sense of relaxed alertness without sedation.
Adaptogens (ashwagandha, holy basil—if appropriate)
These herbs help regulate cortisol patterns, especially during chronic stress.
Supporting cortisol creates space for steadier moods, clearer thinking, and better sleep.
Sleep & Circadian Rhythm — “Resetting Your Nighttime Hormones”
Melatonin, cortisol, insulin, and sex hormones all depend on circadian rhythm. A few small habits can realign your internal clock—even during busy holiday weeks.
Evening Routine
Dim lights after sunset
Warm-toned lamps, soft bulbs, or candlelight help melatonin rise naturally.
No screens 60–90 minutes before bed
Blue light suppresses melatonin and keeps your brain wired when it should be slowing down.
Warm baths, herbal tea, or stretching
These send “slow down” signals to the nervous system and prepare the body for rest.
Sleep Foundations
Consistent wake time
The body regulates sleep more by wake time than bedtime. Even on holiday mornings, keeping this steady stabilizes hormones.
Early protein-rich dinner
This reduces nighttime blood sugar swings and supports restorative sleep.
Morning sunlight exposure
Just 2–5 minutes of natural light can reset your internal clock and support melatonin production that night.
When circadian rhythm is restored, cravings diminish, mood steadies, and energy returns.
Sex Hormone Balance — “Supporting Estrogen & Progesterone Naturally”
Sex hormones—especially estrogen and progesterone—are highly sensitive to holiday stressors. When sleep is disrupted, sugar intake spikes, and cortisol rises, these hormones shift quickly, creating symptoms like mood swings, irritability, breast tenderness, bloating, or increased cravings.
These gentle, functional-medicine–aligned strategies support natural hormone balance, especially for women in midlife.
Gentle Detox Support
Healthy estrogen balance depends on efficient detoxification and elimination. Supporting these pathways can make a noticeable difference within days.
- Cruciferous vegetables (broccoli, cauliflower, kale, Brussels sprouts) help metabolize estrogen safely.
- Bitter greens (arugula, dandelion, endive) stimulate digestion and liver pathways.
- Hydration & fiber ensure estrogen metabolites move through the bowel instead of being reabsorbed.
A single serving of crucifers each day can meaningfully support hormone clearance.
Reducing Triggers
Certain holiday habits amplify hormone symptoms. Reducing them—not eliminating, just moderating—can help you feel more steady.
- Alcohol moderation to avoid blood sugar spikes and estrogen disruption.
- Reducing inflammatory foods (excess sugar, gluten, dairy, fried foods) to calm bloating and mood changes.
- Managing stress to protect progesterone, since cortisol “steals” from progesterone production during prolonged stress.
Even small reductions in triggers can smooth out hormone swings dramatically.
Functional Medicine Tools
For women with persistent or significant hormone symptoms, deeper evaluation can be transformative.
- DUTCH testing to assess estrogen, progesterone, DHEA, testosterone, cortisol rhythms, and metabolites.
- Thyroid support when fatigue, hair thinning, or weight changes are present.
- Gut health optimization, since gut microbes help regulate estrogen.
- Progesterone support when clinically appropriate and guided by testing.
These tools help personalize care rather than guessing.
You Deserve to Feel Balanced and Supported
The holidays often reveal hormone vulnerabilities—but they also highlight opportunities for healing, refinement, and renewal.
You don’t need perfection to feel better.
You don’t need a rigid plan.
You need small, grace-based shifts that support your biology.
Women in midlife can feel vibrant, steady, and empowered—even during the holidays—with the right functional medicine tools and the compassionate, rooted guidance that Dr. Libert provides.
You do not have to navigate these changes alone.
If this holiday season has magnified mood swings, cravings, fatigue, sleep issues, or hormonal ups and downs, Dr. Libert and her team would be honored to walk with you toward balance and renewal.
Contact Caring for the Body, PLLC – Center for Functional Medicine
📍 1998 Hendersonville Rd, Suite #24, Asheville, NC 28803
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